How often do you think is healthy to see a partner?

I would like to see my boyfriend more as I don't feel we spend much time together at all. He tells me that we do and it be clingy if we spent more time together. We spend about 3 hours a week together I usually go round his house on a sunday and we just sit there while he watches the football its usually between 3 and 5pm and that's it. Sometimes he'll see me on a Saturday eveing for a little bit but usually Friday night he's at the pub with his friends then Saturday he's playing football with his friends during the day then they go out clubbing or to parties and he'll come home sunday.

I know his time is his and if he wants to go out that's up to him but im finding it hard always fitting around his friends. His friends see there girlfriends during the week and usually the taken ones leave the pub early and don't go clubbing as they are seeing their girlfriends.

This weekend I asked to see him but hes out at a party on Saturday and said he has to go for drinks with work on Friday, the weekend after that hes away with friends. I booked a night away so we actually could see one another but even then we have to leave early as he wants to get back to go out.

Hes 25 so hes not a baby hes not very clingy or soppy at all but im finidng it increasingly hard being second best when I spoke to him he just had a go at me and told me I was clingy.

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