Please read all, I will read answers/comments in the morning :)
Overall need-to-know:
So there's a girl in my college class who I am really attracted to. We've known each other now for about 4 months and have become rather close. She's quite energetic and occasionally immature but this is OK with me I guess - I'm a bit crazy sometimes too!
Two months ago, I added her Skype and we talked often (every other day at least) and sometimes the calls lasted up to 6 - 8 hours in one day which is longer than I have with a lot of my close friends. We have a laugh and I really like her personally and physically. On occasion I hint that I like her and I'm pretty sure she's aware of this.
What I don't understand that she does:
Recently in the past month, I've noticed her doing things in attempt to make me jealous of her. For example, when I'm talking to my mates she sees this, runs up to one of them and starts hugging them whilst glaring at me with a smirk. She does similar things when on lunch break, she will hug somebody and then stare at me with a smirk - almost like she's Making sure i'm looking. I don't understand it, she even does it with guys who she knows are in relationships. Then after she has gone trying to make me jealous, she approaches me for hugs and cuddles and stuff. She's always acting like she wants to prove something to me, but I'm really confused and stuck with how I should act.
How I've been dealing with it:
I'm quite a shy person, and so to deal with it I kind of brush her off in a jokey manner. I straight up reject her because sub-consciously I don't want to give in to her and give her what she wants - maybe I should?? I know she's purposely trying to make me jealous and don't want her to win at her game. I don't accept her on occasion, but don't want to do it too often.
Thanks for reading my situation - I really hope I can get some decent & serious responses of your thoughts about this. I really want to get with her, even though we'[re in the same class, I'm determined to make it work. I'll read all the responses in the morning - I look forward to it too!!
Goodnight <3
Overall need-to-know:
So there's a girl in my college class who I am really attracted to. We've known each other now for about 4 months and have become rather close. She's quite energetic and occasionally immature but this is OK with me I guess - I'm a bit crazy sometimes too!
Two months ago, I added her Skype and we talked often (every other day at least) and sometimes the calls lasted up to 6 - 8 hours in one day which is longer than I have with a lot of my close friends. We have a laugh and I really like her personally and physically. On occasion I hint that I like her and I'm pretty sure she's aware of this.
What I don't understand that she does:
Recently in the past month, I've noticed her doing things in attempt to make me jealous of her. For example, when I'm talking to my mates she sees this, runs up to one of them and starts hugging them whilst glaring at me with a smirk. She does similar things when on lunch break, she will hug somebody and then stare at me with a smirk - almost like she's Making sure i'm looking. I don't understand it, she even does it with guys who she knows are in relationships. Then after she has gone trying to make me jealous, she approaches me for hugs and cuddles and stuff. She's always acting like she wants to prove something to me, but I'm really confused and stuck with how I should act.
How I've been dealing with it:
I'm quite a shy person, and so to deal with it I kind of brush her off in a jokey manner. I straight up reject her because sub-consciously I don't want to give in to her and give her what she wants - maybe I should?? I know she's purposely trying to make me jealous and don't want her to win at her game. I don't accept her on occasion, but don't want to do it too often.
Thanks for reading my situation - I really hope I can get some decent & serious responses of your thoughts about this. I really want to get with her, even though we'[re in the same class, I'm determined to make it work. I'll read all the responses in the morning - I look forward to it too!!
Goodnight <3
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