Hi everyone,
I'd like a few pointers on my situation I am currently in with my girlfriend.
We had a fall out over the weekend. A couple of friends and I went to her party, at her house. Long story short - most people at said party were very rude and ignorant. This left me to talk to her parents for a little while, and then I went and sat with my friends whom I had bought to the party - whom my girlfriend knows very well. I also know her friends, and know her housemate quite well. My friends and I were accused by a couple of her friends of being rude - this isn't true. I am not a rude person, and neither are my friends. We were accused of being a "negative energy". We then left, as we weren't made to feel welcome.
Anyway, her parents were staying in a hotel near to her house. The morning after was her actual birthday. They took her out for breakfast and coffee to a cafe not 30 seconds walk from my house. I wasn't invited. We've been together for two years.
I met up with her later, and without going into the details of it, I had a breakdown. I am suffering from depression, of which she wasn't really aware. I told her about my pain and suffering.
We then went for a meal with all her friends. I was polite and well mannered, but I couldn't stand being in their company. I felt like I was sat alone in a room full of people.
I apologised (I know - I shouldn't have to apologise for having an illness) for my outburst that day, but I had to go home and go to bed. They were going out for drinks and I was at work at 7 the next day - the time was already 12:30.
She then left me to go join her friends whilst I made my way home. I didn't get a text all night, which is strange. Nothing to ask me how I was feeling. The next morning, no text.
I text her to see if we were still wanting to do something for her birthday, just her and I (which by the way is what we had planned to do months ago). Hours pass, and I eventually get a message back saying she didn't want to see me and she wants a couple of days off from seeing me.
I haven't heard from her since - this was yesterday morning.
I am mentally preparing myself for being finished, but I'd like to ask you, TSR, what you make of the situation.
Thank you.
I'd like a few pointers on my situation I am currently in with my girlfriend.
We had a fall out over the weekend. A couple of friends and I went to her party, at her house. Long story short - most people at said party were very rude and ignorant. This left me to talk to her parents for a little while, and then I went and sat with my friends whom I had bought to the party - whom my girlfriend knows very well. I also know her friends, and know her housemate quite well. My friends and I were accused by a couple of her friends of being rude - this isn't true. I am not a rude person, and neither are my friends. We were accused of being a "negative energy". We then left, as we weren't made to feel welcome.
Anyway, her parents were staying in a hotel near to her house. The morning after was her actual birthday. They took her out for breakfast and coffee to a cafe not 30 seconds walk from my house. I wasn't invited. We've been together for two years.
I met up with her later, and without going into the details of it, I had a breakdown. I am suffering from depression, of which she wasn't really aware. I told her about my pain and suffering.
We then went for a meal with all her friends. I was polite and well mannered, but I couldn't stand being in their company. I felt like I was sat alone in a room full of people.
I apologised (I know - I shouldn't have to apologise for having an illness) for my outburst that day, but I had to go home and go to bed. They were going out for drinks and I was at work at 7 the next day - the time was already 12:30.
She then left me to go join her friends whilst I made my way home. I didn't get a text all night, which is strange. Nothing to ask me how I was feeling. The next morning, no text.
I text her to see if we were still wanting to do something for her birthday, just her and I (which by the way is what we had planned to do months ago). Hours pass, and I eventually get a message back saying she didn't want to see me and she wants a couple of days off from seeing me.
I haven't heard from her since - this was yesterday morning.
I am mentally preparing myself for being finished, but I'd like to ask you, TSR, what you make of the situation.
Thank you.
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