I am not sure what I want to do....things are tense between us and we are getting on each other's nerves. He is going on a camp job in about 3 weeks and will be away for two weeks.
I do think I can be a snippity ***** because I am still angry about his EA's. I admit I am not the easiest to live with.
I am debating going to individual counselling to maybe learn how I can learn to deal and control my anger and annoyance with him.
I am so mixed with this separation thing..on one hand I think maybe it would be good for me but then there is that scared side of me that thinks no just try and make things work. So am I wanting him to stay out of fear of the unknown???
He says if we do a trial separation we would keep everything the same..ie. finances..he would pay the mortgage and as he is self employed and we jointly own a business I would still deal with the business issues/finances, etc.
Thoughts/advice would be welcome
We do not have young children...just one adult son who is starting his career and still lives at home. I admit that even if he is an adult he is a good kid and I worry that even as an adult it is still hard when you hear that your parents are separating.
I do think I can be a snippity ***** because I am still angry about his EA's. I admit I am not the easiest to live with.
I am debating going to individual counselling to maybe learn how I can learn to deal and control my anger and annoyance with him.
I am so mixed with this separation thing..on one hand I think maybe it would be good for me but then there is that scared side of me that thinks no just try and make things work. So am I wanting him to stay out of fear of the unknown???
He says if we do a trial separation we would keep everything the same..ie. finances..he would pay the mortgage and as he is self employed and we jointly own a business I would still deal with the business issues/finances, etc.
Thoughts/advice would be welcome
We do not have young children...just one adult son who is starting his career and still lives at home. I admit that even if he is an adult he is a good kid and I worry that even as an adult it is still hard when you hear that your parents are separating.
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