Hi guys,
I know this is my first post, but at this point I'm doing all I can. I've been dating an amazing woman for over two years. Moved in with her, everything was going great. past couple months I noticed a little change, and I noticed she didn't see as happy. Long story short we broke up last week.
I was planning on proposing to her in March of next year :/
After talking with her, her reason for breaking it off with me is because she felt like I was ignoring her. She's only 22 (as of tomorrow actually), but we've talked about marriage before though of course not for a little while longer. She also mentioned that I never follow through with things, and that I'm not very good at being romantic.
The worst part of all this, is that she said I was just like her dad, who was a bad alcoholic and very careless. She's had trust issues with any guys because of her dad, and honestly I do not blame her. It hurts so much to be compared to her father.
We talked about this once before last month, and I said I would change. But we got into an argument and it kind of just went downhill. And now she's not sure what she wants.
I still know what I want, and that's her. I told her again I would do anything for her, and I will change to be what she deserves. I loooove her smile and would do anything to see her just smile. It's perfect to me.
She has trust issues with me now because of all this, and I really don't know what to do. I'm 24, ready to commit to her. I know she WAS ready to commit, and I want to prove to her that she will be so happy with me. I would give her the world if I could.
The reason I'm posting this, is because I told her I wanted to get her a car. She just got a new full time job that she loves, but varying hours means that rides to and from her job prove difficult. It's freezing this winter (especially right now!) and I'd love to provide her with a way of getting around. I'm thinking this would be mutually beneficial because if she sees that I'm trying my hardest to commit to this, she may want to eventually get back together with me.
I know we're both young, but she really was everything I wanted and more.
gofundme dot com/Rebuilding-A-Relationship
The "link" above is for a donation page. With school loans for both her and I, and her medical bills, she really can't afford a car. Her parents don't have much money unfortunately. Since I can't post URLS, if you need any help with getting to the correct link please let me now. It DOES have a little of my personal information in it, but none of hers, so it's OK.
As her birthday is tomorrow, and with Christmas coming up, I'd LOVE to be able to get her something "nice" for the holidays. I put nice in quotes because I'm not looking for a fancy car, just something to get her around reliably. I think it would make a world of difference at least for her. I just know she'd be so greatful.
If anyone could donate even just a little bit to this fund I'd GREATLY appreciate it. She's my world, and I told her to do whatever makes HER happy. If we never get back together, I can get over that (eventually), but as long as she's smiling and happy then it's worth it.
Thanks for the time to look at this post, I really do appreciate it. I'm sorry if this post seems desperate and whatnot, but I'm not sure what else to do. It drives me crazy knowing that I hurt her and would do anything to take that back and let her see I want to change and want to make this commitment.
--Shaun
I know this is my first post, but at this point I'm doing all I can. I've been dating an amazing woman for over two years. Moved in with her, everything was going great. past couple months I noticed a little change, and I noticed she didn't see as happy. Long story short we broke up last week.
I was planning on proposing to her in March of next year :/
After talking with her, her reason for breaking it off with me is because she felt like I was ignoring her. She's only 22 (as of tomorrow actually), but we've talked about marriage before though of course not for a little while longer. She also mentioned that I never follow through with things, and that I'm not very good at being romantic.
The worst part of all this, is that she said I was just like her dad, who was a bad alcoholic and very careless. She's had trust issues with any guys because of her dad, and honestly I do not blame her. It hurts so much to be compared to her father.
We talked about this once before last month, and I said I would change. But we got into an argument and it kind of just went downhill. And now she's not sure what she wants.
I still know what I want, and that's her. I told her again I would do anything for her, and I will change to be what she deserves. I loooove her smile and would do anything to see her just smile. It's perfect to me.
She has trust issues with me now because of all this, and I really don't know what to do. I'm 24, ready to commit to her. I know she WAS ready to commit, and I want to prove to her that she will be so happy with me. I would give her the world if I could.
The reason I'm posting this, is because I told her I wanted to get her a car. She just got a new full time job that she loves, but varying hours means that rides to and from her job prove difficult. It's freezing this winter (especially right now!) and I'd love to provide her with a way of getting around. I'm thinking this would be mutually beneficial because if she sees that I'm trying my hardest to commit to this, she may want to eventually get back together with me.
I know we're both young, but she really was everything I wanted and more.
gofundme dot com/Rebuilding-A-Relationship
The "link" above is for a donation page. With school loans for both her and I, and her medical bills, she really can't afford a car. Her parents don't have much money unfortunately. Since I can't post URLS, if you need any help with getting to the correct link please let me now. It DOES have a little of my personal information in it, but none of hers, so it's OK.
As her birthday is tomorrow, and with Christmas coming up, I'd LOVE to be able to get her something "nice" for the holidays. I put nice in quotes because I'm not looking for a fancy car, just something to get her around reliably. I think it would make a world of difference at least for her. I just know she'd be so greatful.
If anyone could donate even just a little bit to this fund I'd GREATLY appreciate it. She's my world, and I told her to do whatever makes HER happy. If we never get back together, I can get over that (eventually), but as long as she's smiling and happy then it's worth it.
Thanks for the time to look at this post, I really do appreciate it. I'm sorry if this post seems desperate and whatnot, but I'm not sure what else to do. It drives me crazy knowing that I hurt her and would do anything to take that back and let her see I want to change and want to make this commitment.
--Shaun
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