So my H told me on Nov. 11 that he wants to separate. We've been to MC and according to my H it's over and he doesn't think reconciliation is possible. It's not important what happened, why he's feeling this way, if he cheated, etc. It's my 33rd bday on Saturday and it is also his work Christmas Party. He has chosen to go to the party alone. He just told me today that he's also going to go out on Fri night, all day Sat and Sat night (xmas party). So it'll just be myself and our 7-month old daughter. This is the e-mail he wrote to me about a week or so ago regarding my bday and him going to his party alone.
Regarding that day, I realize it's your birthday, so I do think its best that you do go see your family so that it's a special day and not ruined by our situation. I'm not going to be fake with you trying to share a day that should normally be celebratory in nature. I realize that it's not about me, but I'm not going to confuse or lead you in a different direction than what I'm feeling and I also don't want to be cold to you either by not sharing in the day.
I know this may come across as harsh but its not my intentions, I just don't know how else to say it without being direct.
I'm devastated. I was so upset when I got that e-mail a week ago and I'm crushed even more now that he told me that he has plans Fri night, all day Sat, and Sat night. I know I have my daughter to spend it with and I am so grateful for that but I'm so heart. How do I get through this weekend?
Btw....please let's not talk about him cheating on me. I know that's a possibility but I just don't want to talk about that. I just need encouragement and advice on how to get through this weekend.
Regarding that day, I realize it's your birthday, so I do think its best that you do go see your family so that it's a special day and not ruined by our situation. I'm not going to be fake with you trying to share a day that should normally be celebratory in nature. I realize that it's not about me, but I'm not going to confuse or lead you in a different direction than what I'm feeling and I also don't want to be cold to you either by not sharing in the day.
I know this may come across as harsh but its not my intentions, I just don't know how else to say it without being direct.
I'm devastated. I was so upset when I got that e-mail a week ago and I'm crushed even more now that he told me that he has plans Fri night, all day Sat, and Sat night. I know I have my daughter to spend it with and I am so grateful for that but I'm so heart. How do I get through this weekend?
Btw....please let's not talk about him cheating on me. I know that's a possibility but I just don't want to talk about that. I just need encouragement and advice on how to get through this weekend.
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