After a year of dating my b/f, things are relatively good with us. It hasn't always been easy with ex's in the picture, parenting after divorce etc. but it's getting better.
My b/f has a great relationship with his ex, they share some of the same friends etc. So he brought up New Years Eve, and kind of threw it out there that his ex was having a party, his kids will be there, and maybe a couple of people I know. I'm not sure how I feel at this point going to a party at his ex wife's, it just seems weird to me, and it's stressing me out. I haven't told him this because I don't want to look insecure about our relationship, and I really don't know how to express my feelings without coming across as exactly that. It's almost like he thinks I'll be cool about it because he's fine with it. I've met her a couple of times, and yeah, she's nice enough, but it's just my comfort level about the whole situation. Had it been a few years from now, I may have felt differently, but after only a year, not so much??
What do people think about this? and has anyone ever done the party/dinner thing with ex's and spouses present? I'm not worried about him going back to her, and really it's not something I have any control over anyway, but that's not the issue.
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My b/f has a great relationship with his ex, they share some of the same friends etc. So he brought up New Years Eve, and kind of threw it out there that his ex was having a party, his kids will be there, and maybe a couple of people I know. I'm not sure how I feel at this point going to a party at his ex wife's, it just seems weird to me, and it's stressing me out. I haven't told him this because I don't want to look insecure about our relationship, and I really don't know how to express my feelings without coming across as exactly that. It's almost like he thinks I'll be cool about it because he's fine with it. I've met her a couple of times, and yeah, she's nice enough, but it's just my comfort level about the whole situation. Had it been a few years from now, I may have felt differently, but after only a year, not so much??
What do people think about this? and has anyone ever done the party/dinner thing with ex's and spouses present? I'm not worried about him going back to her, and really it's not something I have any control over anyway, but that's not the issue.
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