Hey guys I'm quite new to TSR, so I'm going to keep this short and concise.
Me and my girlfriend have been dating for 3 months from today, and well its a long distance relationship and from the 2nd month (october) onwards because she had to go to university (I'm 17 and she's 18) which may sound weird but it really isn't.
She had a big argument with her parents and then she didnt want to come back to stay so i didnt get to see her for a month, then when she did come back she wanted to meet up with me but instead met up with her ex because he had bought her posters and stuff,I got really frustrated and well the next day i brought it up and she ignored me and was acting bluntly towards me for the next month, which really hurt me and she apologised for acting so harsh on me, she wont let me express my feeling and whenever i want to sort a problem out she wants to avoid the whole thing altogether which i dont find productive. They are still really good friends and they still hang out with each other when she's back from uni and i dont know if i should just break up with her because sometimes i really do feel like she's going to cheat even though my friends say she won't (she is a really insecure person and has eating problems and used to cut), and now she snaps at me whenever i even mention someth ing so im starting to feel suspicious, or maybe im just overthinking things? She dated her ex for a year and half and her ex still loves her, she still hasnt told him about us because she thinks it'll hurt him. My females friends often tell me that she's moved on because she's with me but sometimes i just cant think that she has, its hard to accept and not to mention she hasnt really told any of her friends about me.
I'm stuck on what to do and i really do love her but im in my A2's and i can't afford to mess up, during the time she ignored me i couldnt concentrate at all and do any work and my teachers got very worried because im not a depressed person, if no im actually very outgoing and a happy person. She made me feel things that i've never felt before; She's made me the happiest person and also the saddest person at the same time, and im wondering if its time to break up with her, but it's very hard because (she was my first if you know what i mean) and im very emotionally attached to her, any suggestions on how to deal with the ex bf situation?
Me and my girlfriend have been dating for 3 months from today, and well its a long distance relationship and from the 2nd month (october) onwards because she had to go to university (I'm 17 and she's 18) which may sound weird but it really isn't.
She had a big argument with her parents and then she didnt want to come back to stay so i didnt get to see her for a month, then when she did come back she wanted to meet up with me but instead met up with her ex because he had bought her posters and stuff,I got really frustrated and well the next day i brought it up and she ignored me and was acting bluntly towards me for the next month, which really hurt me and she apologised for acting so harsh on me, she wont let me express my feeling and whenever i want to sort a problem out she wants to avoid the whole thing altogether which i dont find productive. They are still really good friends and they still hang out with each other when she's back from uni and i dont know if i should just break up with her because sometimes i really do feel like she's going to cheat even though my friends say she won't (she is a really insecure person and has eating problems and used to cut), and now she snaps at me whenever i even mention someth ing so im starting to feel suspicious, or maybe im just overthinking things? She dated her ex for a year and half and her ex still loves her, she still hasnt told him about us because she thinks it'll hurt him. My females friends often tell me that she's moved on because she's with me but sometimes i just cant think that she has, its hard to accept and not to mention she hasnt really told any of her friends about me.
I'm stuck on what to do and i really do love her but im in my A2's and i can't afford to mess up, during the time she ignored me i couldnt concentrate at all and do any work and my teachers got very worried because im not a depressed person, if no im actually very outgoing and a happy person. She made me feel things that i've never felt before; She's made me the happiest person and also the saddest person at the same time, and im wondering if its time to break up with her, but it's very hard because (she was my first if you know what i mean) and im very emotionally attached to her, any suggestions on how to deal with the ex bf situation?
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