Hi everyone!
I know that the title of this post sounds crass but let me explain:
I know a girl, she has a great personality, really friendly, genuinely nice person, she is one of those people who doesn't have a bad bone in her body, I also enjoy being around her.
However, I feel that i'm looking for someone who is on a similar academic level to me, so we can debate and have substantive discussions regarding academic subjects (this ovbiously isn't the main/only thing I am looking for in a wife but is a factor to consider). I'm doing a law degree and she is studying nursing, there is a clear intullectual gap between the two of us, part of me says that doesn't matter as she is a great person and is someone who I can see myself marrying, but on the other hand I worry that I may get frustrated that we may have more limited topics of conversation due to the the gap in our intullects (this isn't just an intelligence issue, I think that a consequence of that is a difference in some interests as well).
So what i'm really asking you guys is should this intullectual gap be a real concern or should I focus on her great personality etc. and go for it?
P.S please don't think that i'm an intullectual snob i'm really far from that, its simply a big factor in a big decision which i'm concerned about.
Thanks in advance for your advice!!
I know that the title of this post sounds crass but let me explain:
I know a girl, she has a great personality, really friendly, genuinely nice person, she is one of those people who doesn't have a bad bone in her body, I also enjoy being around her.
However, I feel that i'm looking for someone who is on a similar academic level to me, so we can debate and have substantive discussions regarding academic subjects (this ovbiously isn't the main/only thing I am looking for in a wife but is a factor to consider). I'm doing a law degree and she is studying nursing, there is a clear intullectual gap between the two of us, part of me says that doesn't matter as she is a great person and is someone who I can see myself marrying, but on the other hand I worry that I may get frustrated that we may have more limited topics of conversation due to the the gap in our intullects (this isn't just an intelligence issue, I think that a consequence of that is a difference in some interests as well).
So what i'm really asking you guys is should this intullectual gap be a real concern or should I focus on her great personality etc. and go for it?
P.S please don't think that i'm an intullectual snob i'm really far from that, its simply a big factor in a big decision which i'm concerned about.
Thanks in advance for your advice!!
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