Can somebody explain to me why my threads are whiny?

If I genuinely come in with preconceived notions that I have to be a certain way to get/keep a girlfriend and I ask TSR for advice on various things, how is this whining to ask for advice?

I actually have no problem with her having other friends/texting other people, but I thought that the usual response would be she's cheating on you.

Put the internet to work for you.

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