I've been having problems with my boyfriend for a while now - he gets really psycho when he drinks and we have been on a break a few times recently because of this, but last night at a house party I said that he had one more chance. Of course, he got drunk and he ended up hitting someone. So in a drunken state I broke up with him.
Prior to this I was interviewing one of his friends for my uni dissertation and this guy had opened up to me for about 3 hours. We got on really well and he came to the party with me and my boyfriend. Whilst my boyfriend was off getting drunk, me and his friend were spending all our time together and opening up. To be fair, it was a little bit too flirty but at the time I didn't notice. We kept getting closer and closer and after the incident with my boyfriend, I cried in his friends arms and we got in bed together. My boyfriend found us, even though nothing was happening and went mental. I got angry at him as I said he didn't trust me, etc.
However, after a while, when we all went to bed at the host's house, I went to bed with the friend as he had been comforting me and holding my hand all evening and I swear I haven't felt a connection with someone like that in a long time. And things got rather heated and we ended up sleeping together.
The next morning we all went for breakfast but me and the friend didn't speak. Then me and my boyfriend made up and I realised that the hitting situation wasn't actually his fault, and we ended up getting back together. I told him that me and his friend slept in the same bed but nothing happened and he was so upset. I love him so much and I don't want to lose him over some drunken/lustful/stupid/revenge shag. I felt connected to this guy, but I don't actually care about him. I don't know what the hell I was doing. I would just leave it but I don't know his friend and if he'll say something to anyone.
We're 21 and have been together for 2 and half years and I've never even thought about cheating, so it's quite a big deal. Help please!!!
Prior to this I was interviewing one of his friends for my uni dissertation and this guy had opened up to me for about 3 hours. We got on really well and he came to the party with me and my boyfriend. Whilst my boyfriend was off getting drunk, me and his friend were spending all our time together and opening up. To be fair, it was a little bit too flirty but at the time I didn't notice. We kept getting closer and closer and after the incident with my boyfriend, I cried in his friends arms and we got in bed together. My boyfriend found us, even though nothing was happening and went mental. I got angry at him as I said he didn't trust me, etc.
However, after a while, when we all went to bed at the host's house, I went to bed with the friend as he had been comforting me and holding my hand all evening and I swear I haven't felt a connection with someone like that in a long time. And things got rather heated and we ended up sleeping together.
The next morning we all went for breakfast but me and the friend didn't speak. Then me and my boyfriend made up and I realised that the hitting situation wasn't actually his fault, and we ended up getting back together. I told him that me and his friend slept in the same bed but nothing happened and he was so upset. I love him so much and I don't want to lose him over some drunken/lustful/stupid/revenge shag. I felt connected to this guy, but I don't actually care about him. I don't know what the hell I was doing. I would just leave it but I don't know his friend and if he'll say something to anyone.
We're 21 and have been together for 2 and half years and I've never even thought about cheating, so it's quite a big deal. Help please!!!
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