So I like one of my close friends, and I'm not sure what he thinks of me.
About six months ago, we were at a party and we ended up making out at night once everyone was asleep. I'm openly gay and he's "straight". At the parties we've been to since then (we only see each other at parties and get togethers etc), we've ended up being together every time, even if it's just cuddling.
At a recent party, as we were all going to sleep he got naked ("it's really warm"), which he hasn't done before, and conveniently just so happened to be sleeping next to me. I took my clothes off too and once the lights went out, he was all over me, arms wrapped around me etc, fondled each other and stuff.
He also stayed round mine a few weeks ago and we were sleeping in separate beds. After half an hour of us being quiet and trying to get to sleep, he got out of his bed and into mine. We started cuddling and w/e but he then said, "sorry, I'm not drunk enough".
This has me worried :S but on the other hand, at the last party we were sitting together in the early evening, he hadn't had much to drink at this point, he put a blanket over us and underneath it, was touching me, even though everyone else was around.
Our friendship group consists of 7 or so people and we all Skype each night. He can be flirty with me, he has a pet name for me, and there is an ongoing joke among the others that we are together (even though he is straight to them).
He's told me he doesn't know his sexuality but he isn't straight. But I don't know if he likes me. The other day, he invited us all to a gig, but when I was the only person who wanted to come, he said he also wanted someone else to come because it would feel like a date to him otherwise :(
Also, I kissed a guy the other day and he was clearly jealous/made a big thing of it. A while ago I was in a friends with benefits relationship with someone and he made a big thing of that too (at least it seemed that way to me)
It probably sounds obvious that he likes me, but it isn't to me. I don't know if the stuff he does with me just the alcohol?
I really like him and when I'm in his arms, it's the best feeling in the world, but I don't know if he feels the same way about me. Does he like me? What should I do?
(sorry for the long post)
About six months ago, we were at a party and we ended up making out at night once everyone was asleep. I'm openly gay and he's "straight". At the parties we've been to since then (we only see each other at parties and get togethers etc), we've ended up being together every time, even if it's just cuddling.
At a recent party, as we were all going to sleep he got naked ("it's really warm"), which he hasn't done before, and conveniently just so happened to be sleeping next to me. I took my clothes off too and once the lights went out, he was all over me, arms wrapped around me etc, fondled each other and stuff.
He also stayed round mine a few weeks ago and we were sleeping in separate beds. After half an hour of us being quiet and trying to get to sleep, he got out of his bed and into mine. We started cuddling and w/e but he then said, "sorry, I'm not drunk enough".
This has me worried :S but on the other hand, at the last party we were sitting together in the early evening, he hadn't had much to drink at this point, he put a blanket over us and underneath it, was touching me, even though everyone else was around.
Our friendship group consists of 7 or so people and we all Skype each night. He can be flirty with me, he has a pet name for me, and there is an ongoing joke among the others that we are together (even though he is straight to them).
He's told me he doesn't know his sexuality but he isn't straight. But I don't know if he likes me. The other day, he invited us all to a gig, but when I was the only person who wanted to come, he said he also wanted someone else to come because it would feel like a date to him otherwise :(
Also, I kissed a guy the other day and he was clearly jealous/made a big thing of it. A while ago I was in a friends with benefits relationship with someone and he made a big thing of that too (at least it seemed that way to me)
It probably sounds obvious that he likes me, but it isn't to me. I don't know if the stuff he does with me just the alcohol?
I really like him and when I'm in his arms, it's the best feeling in the world, but I don't know if he feels the same way about me. Does he like me? What should I do?
(sorry for the long post)
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