First of all, we have been married for almost 2 years. He is in the air force so I know what I am getting in to such as deployments. We survived the first deployment without any problem. Lately, he said after getting out of the military, he wants a job that he can travel more and he's afraid that I will be lonely waiting for him. That's why he wants a divorce. However, I said when I'm married to him, I am willing to wait during those times he's away from home. I'm supportive of his dreams. I don't know why he used that to give me a divorce now. He said it would be unfair for me to wait. I know what is fair for me. I already made a vow with him and willing to stay no matter what happens. However, in order to pursue his dreams without having to worry about anyone, he's willing to give me up.
Before this, he asked me for a separation before because some fights that we have that is very normal between couples. He did not share his bank account passwords while I never use his money for personal expenses. He talked to his ex while he was on his first deployment. Every time we had a fight, he is not respectful to me and tell me to shut up one time.
Should I fight for him or give up on him? I do love him but I see he's not totally committed to me. This morning he said he wants to be with me but he cannot guarantee that this will not happen again. That he will try his best but he cannot make the promise to stay together no matter what happens.
Any advice would be appreciated. Thanks!
He was crying with tears when he said he wants to leave me and he tried to hug me and he said he really loves me and it's really hard for him. I don't know why he's doing that while he wants to leave me.
Before this, he asked me for a separation before because some fights that we have that is very normal between couples. He did not share his bank account passwords while I never use his money for personal expenses. He talked to his ex while he was on his first deployment. Every time we had a fight, he is not respectful to me and tell me to shut up one time.
Should I fight for him or give up on him? I do love him but I see he's not totally committed to me. This morning he said he wants to be with me but he cannot guarantee that this will not happen again. That he will try his best but he cannot make the promise to stay together no matter what happens.
Any advice would be appreciated. Thanks!
He was crying with tears when he said he wants to leave me and he tried to hug me and he said he really loves me and it's really hard for him. I don't know why he's doing that while he wants to leave me.
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