I just can't believe this is already happening. Last year in after care a boy kept hugging my daughter and hanging around her and calling her sweetie.
I taught her to tell him to stay out of her personal space and that he needs to leave her alone. She said he was sad but that was it.
They are in the same class this year. The first week of school he over whelmed her with attention, was hanging on her, hugging her, writing her love notes, just constantly in her face.
I talked to the teacher and she took care of it. After that he didn't bother her. Friday she told me that he's now being rude and mean to her every chance he can get: calling her names, throwing balls at her, making fun of her I'm the halls, the playground and gym class.
My daughter is not a shy child and has actually had issues herself with fighting with another girl. She's no shrinking violet. She said she tried to ignore him but he just keeps doing it. She's to the point where she wants to move to another class to get away from him.
This morning she was crying about it. I contacted the principal and he is going to talk to her teacher about what they are doing in class to keep him away from her.
They are both 8! I'm just feeling kind of sick about it. This morning she told me she feels like it's her fault: I told her he has mental problems. She says he cries all the time about the smallest things.
This child is just bizarre.
My husband said maybe he needs counseling. What if his parents are doing all they know to do and this is just how he is?
So now that the principals are involved I'm afraid he might find another way to retaliate against her.
I'm to the point where I want to go volunteer just so I can give him the evil eye all day. I know that's bad but my god....she's 8 years old and has to deal with a boy being pissed off that she doesn't love him? WTF???
If anyone needs to be moved to a different class it's him. Maybe to the special class for kids with emotional disorders.
I taught her to tell him to stay out of her personal space and that he needs to leave her alone. She said he was sad but that was it.
They are in the same class this year. The first week of school he over whelmed her with attention, was hanging on her, hugging her, writing her love notes, just constantly in her face.
I talked to the teacher and she took care of it. After that he didn't bother her. Friday she told me that he's now being rude and mean to her every chance he can get: calling her names, throwing balls at her, making fun of her I'm the halls, the playground and gym class.
My daughter is not a shy child and has actually had issues herself with fighting with another girl. She's no shrinking violet. She said she tried to ignore him but he just keeps doing it. She's to the point where she wants to move to another class to get away from him.
This morning she was crying about it. I contacted the principal and he is going to talk to her teacher about what they are doing in class to keep him away from her.
They are both 8! I'm just feeling kind of sick about it. This morning she told me she feels like it's her fault: I told her he has mental problems. She says he cries all the time about the smallest things.
This child is just bizarre.
My husband said maybe he needs counseling. What if his parents are doing all they know to do and this is just how he is?
So now that the principals are involved I'm afraid he might find another way to retaliate against her.
I'm to the point where I want to go volunteer just so I can give him the evil eye all day. I know that's bad but my god....she's 8 years old and has to deal with a boy being pissed off that she doesn't love him? WTF???
If anyone needs to be moved to a different class it's him. Maybe to the special class for kids with emotional disorders.
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