Hi everyone, I am new to this forum and have heard good things about it. So straight to the point.
Today is my wife's birthday. So of course, I expect that
she will get emails/texts from her friends. But I saw a text from an international number from a man that she used to date years ago. The message had no real sexual innuendo to it. Pretty much telling her that he knew that she was asleep but he wished her a happy birthday and hoped that she had a great day. Now I don't know if I am overreacting or if this is something to raise a brow to. She was with this guy on and off for a while. She was crazy about him at one point and he tried REALLY hard to get back with her when they broke up. She didn't get back with him because at that point, she was with me and was not going to break things off with me for him. (we were engaged at the time). They had a lot of chemistry and connection. But now he has moved on and got married and so did she. The only connection they have is that they play some scrabble game online. I am bothered because 1 - He actually REMEMBERED her birthday and 2 - He actually sent her a text from wherever he is Eur ope to wish her a happy birthday. I feel like he may still harbor some feelings for her. What man does that small gesture for a "friend"?
When I approached her about it, she was not defensive at all. She didnt know why he was sending her a message from Europe. She replied to him in front of me and said that she would share his answer from him with me. But she assured me that there is nothing at all to be concerned about. Am I overreacting?
ANY feedback is appreciated.
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Today is my wife's birthday. So of course, I expect that
she will get emails/texts from her friends. But I saw a text from an international number from a man that she used to date years ago. The message had no real sexual innuendo to it. Pretty much telling her that he knew that she was asleep but he wished her a happy birthday and hoped that she had a great day. Now I don't know if I am overreacting or if this is something to raise a brow to. She was with this guy on and off for a while. She was crazy about him at one point and he tried REALLY hard to get back with her when they broke up. She didn't get back with him because at that point, she was with me and was not going to break things off with me for him. (we were engaged at the time). They had a lot of chemistry and connection. But now he has moved on and got married and so did she. The only connection they have is that they play some scrabble game online. I am bothered because 1 - He actually REMEMBERED her birthday and 2 - He actually sent her a text from wherever he is Eur ope to wish her a happy birthday. I feel like he may still harbor some feelings for her. What man does that small gesture for a "friend"?
When I approached her about it, she was not defensive at all. She didnt know why he was sending her a message from Europe. She replied to him in front of me and said that she would share his answer from him with me. But she assured me that there is nothing at all to be concerned about. Am I overreacting?
ANY feedback is appreciated.
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