| So basically I am filing an OP this week, my lawyer is helping me draft it and I believe I may go Thursday. My stbx was abusive and I have been considering that he has a personality disorder (he is almost a poster child from what I have read). Lately he has been very quiet, I found out that he is now engaged... so I assume busy spinning his next web. He has filed for divorce, but not served me. I think because he cannot find me. My lawyer will be asking for maintenance and reimbursement of marital assets/property. Also my lawyer fees since stbx left me penniless (our state allows for my lawyer to take HIS lawyers retainer if he won't pay) I'm scared though. I know as soon as this emergency order is in place the cards will be on the table, he will know I don't just plan on signing everything over. Has anyone been in this situation with someone not mentally stable? He owns guns and numerous knives.. will they make him surrender those? I have also been thinking about counselling. I had a close friend open my eyes today. But I guess we all think we can just get over these issues without help. I now know it has been impacting me more than I like to admit. Does it ever get better? Thank you | |||
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