Does the hatred for the AP stem from the love bank theory??

I was just pondering this and wondering if the whole hatred and resentment of the AP stems from this theory? I think it all has to do with the whole love bank idea discussed in some of the recovery books (have read so many can't remember exactly who coined the idea and which it appeared in). The premise I think holds true for the AP just as it as it does for the WS. The idea that the AP deposits into the WS love credits throughout the A and after the A is ended, have not had time to make sufficient withdrawals. This balance makes the A easily resumed in the future and the WS always carries some sort of torch for the AP until wronged so heinously that the account sustains huge withdrawals causing the WS to no longer have love for the AP. Do most think that the opposite, a sort of hate bank, exists for the AP and the WS as well. The WS also has an account but through the constant contact and attempts to right the wrong of the A, the hate bank is depleated for the WS while the AP is removed from the situation and always maintains a high hate bank balance. The only way that this balance is lowered is for the AP is for them to suffer some sort of pain or setback (loss of job, spouse, family, freedoms, and/or life). The more I think about this it makes sense as to why we would despise the AP for so long and hold a grudge against them until they are wronged themselves?? Any other views or thoughts on this theory??

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