| After 6 years of putting my whole life and career on hold for our children, I am ready to enter the workforce once again. As it turns out, I am in consideration for a few positions that have me making more $ than DH. Everyone in my life is cheering me on, over joyed for this new opportunity...except my DH! He is obviously jealous. He was supportive of me pursuing this position until I told him the pay scale. Since the moment I mentioned it he has been in a sour mood. And his little comments here and there "Oh, we'll you will be paid on the lower end of that range"- Yes, thanks *sshole for pointing that out. When I asked him if he though I could do it, he said "No, honestly I don't think so". BTW I am SURE I can do this. It's easy work in my field. Everyone agrees I can do it. He agreed I could do it UNTIL I mentioned the pay, which is when he switched into negative mode. I have asked him probably 4 or 5 times if he is okay with it, with helping , with me possibly making more money. Each time he has said "yes, yes, yes, I'm fine with it, I'm just moody b/c we are broke, it's just coincidence that my moodiness is at the same time as your job search". What gives? I have been so supportive of all his stupid business ideas, his career, everything. I gave up 6 years of my life for this family! BTW I am GLAD I did it, and not resentful of it. I am resentful of him not being supportive of this transition. How can HE be the only person in my life that's not happy for me?:confused::( | |||
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The most unsupportive person = my husband!
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