Have an affair or not to have an affair

Hello, I have been married for 10 years. Have 2 great kids and and am happy most of the time. One area of our relationship is lacking. My wife and I have been intimate only once in the last 5 years. My wife does not like sex. We have been to counselling, she said she is scared of getting pregnant again. So I got the snip. She says she wanted to lose weight and feel better about herself. She has been to weight watchers and has lost 2 stone. She says she wanted to take it slow. For me I like sex, sex should be fun, exciting, fast, slow, spontaneous, passionate hard and soft. But not once every 5 years. All other aspects of our marriage is great. I even asked her if she would let me sleep with a prostitute, here reply was "I never gave it any thought" I am not looking to break up family, just looking for somebody to have sex with. Being from across the pond, I have found it difficult to find good friends. My wife has encouraged me to do things to make friends. So if I were to have female friends that would be willing to do some of the things I like as a hobby such as, play basketball, badminton, golf, etc. AND also may be interested in some extra activities, wink wink. Is that wrong? There are lots of "affair" sites out there and I set up profiles, then delete them a few days later. Suggestions and support welcome.

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