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wife and I have been married for 10 years...great marriage 1 child and stepson...she started a new job about a year and half ago. she was the light of my life great woman great heart all the wonderful things a man could want. there was a coworker that she started talking about who developed what she called life threatning problems. and she kept telling me that she was trying to set him up with another coworker there who had recently separated btw he is single. I thought nothing of all of this and hoped her friend/coworker got better. well one day while she slept, her cell phone was ringing so I grabbed the phone to keep it from waking her, and somehow opened it up...honestly I didn't know how to unlock it, but there were near 100 text messages to this friend/coworker, and I saw what I think a man wouldn't really want to see. strangely enough none of these text were talking about the gal she was trying to set him up with..all I seen was her checkin g on him to se how he was and going to lunch one day next week or sorry she couldn't come and see him. some of the text also spoke of trying to call him or wasn't able to text him cause she was so busy at work. but never was there any talk of sex or anything [maybe those were deleted], but where is the talk of the other gal that she was setting him up with??? or is that a cover up? idk...the last message that she text to him was " how about lunch next week" and ended it with "miss u... LU' well needless to say it devasted me !!! so I asked her about it and of course she said it was nothing...never has been anything and that they are all just close friends where they work...but I cant get this out of my head...am I wrong for thinking something happened or was it going there...or am I reading to much into those text??? please help

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