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Please help :(

I specifically made an account on here so I could get similar aged peoples' opinions so please please help

I'm 17 and my boyfriend is 19. We've almost been together for 2 years now and our relationship is amazing he is my best friend as well as my boyfriend and I love him to pieces.

However he left school at 16 after failing to get into sixth form because he barely passed any GCSE'S. Since then he went to this weird CAD course thing or something and has gained level 1's/2's etc (I dont really understand the system). In a nutshell if you saw his CV he would look extremely uneducated.

Me on the other hand, I try so hard in school I passed all 11 GCSEs and I'm now in sixth form and have a dream to become a clinical psychologist. I am SO ambitious and mature for my age its bad for me I know and this is my problem- we are so different. If he had never of met me and heard about my plans for the future he would be in total confusion about where his life is going and this worries me.

He never had any encouragement from his parents to do well in school and he has been 'babied' his whole life- he cant cook, iron, clean or basically do anything for himself. I took this on board and am trying to encourage him and change his ways for the better.

But, I am still so young and although I have big dreams and aspirations, Is it worth me being with him if it feels like I'm just gonna be with him until I realise I'm the only one providing and then break up with him? I do NOT want to be in a financial struggle situation when I'm older, It is the biggest fear of mine due to a huge family issue that happened a while back. However whenever i imagine a future with him all i see is me working and paying the bills and him at home unemployed.

He has a job right now he sells tickets for a boat company but he isnt paying tax ie they could drop him at any minute.

I love him so much ad when i think of a future without him it breaks my heart but i dont want MY DREAM to be pulled back/ruined because of him.

please help i need advice




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