New tactic, lets see how it works out.

So after being patient for almost 2 years, waiting for my wife to start caring about our lack of intimacy. After multiple talks and action plans, broken / empty promises... I think I finally have my chance to make her understand. Since the birth of our son, who is almost 2 years old, my wife gets her full quota of emotional "need" taken care of by our son. Well, it would seem that my wife is ready for child number 2! We had always planned to have a 2-3 year gap between our children, and she has started the heavy hint dropping. Here's the thing though, I am also ready for another child. But I am feeling empty, her complete lack of interest in anything sexual over the last 2 years has run me dry. I would rather rub one out than even contemplate taking up the day long mating ritual, especially when it has about a 15% success rate to begin with. Last night I told my wife I am ready to try for our 2nd child. But I gave a stipulation; even though we would be "actively" (the irony) trying for another child, it would be at the current pace. That would be about once every 10 weeks as it has been for the past 2 years. Her face was amazing. We struggled with our first child, it took 2 years of trying with atleast 3-4 times per week. So I am hoping this will really sink in with her that the current handful a year is not acceptable.

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