New here - Advice welcome.

Im lost. I cam here to get an unbiased opinion from a variety of people. I have been in a relationship for 4 months now (yes still new) but it got serious very fast. I am 35, he 31. He chased so hard in the beginning, talked marriage, kids, adopting my kids, moving in , within the first 2 weeks of us dating. I started staying at his house around 3 weeks, and have been ever since. It is out of routine for me and my kids, but it is where i wanted to be, and he wanted us there. Last week, he popped it on me that he just isnt feeling it for me anymore. he loves everythign else about us. We broke up over night, and were fine in the morning, then by noon, he broke up with me again, then after 1 hour, he decided he would try it again. during this i grabbed his cell phone and see that he had been trying to hook up with another woman.....he apologized, felt really bad about it, and we went on. we have had a good week, then last night he tells me, while i want this to work out between us, i am not going to force it, and i have been keeping my eyes open to see what else is out there.... thoughts ? do i stay in case it works, do i stay and be a fool who he leaves when he finds something different, do i stay cause he tells me he wants it to work. or do i leave, and give up on something i truly want ?

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