Is sex a big conflict for a woman?

Girls, would you say that the idea of sex is a big conflict in your life? Because a lot of the time if a girl and a guy are dating and it's going really well and your relationship is developing, when it comes to considering sex the girl usually is quite hesitant most of the time, usually unlike the guy. I mean some women could have experienced some sort of sexual trauma in the past (ie. Rape, abusive guy etc.) which could make them quite cautious as to who they wish to sleep with. I think that women deal with how they view sex in very different ways. One girl might reduce the significance of sex and sleep around with many men, so she can try and forget the negative experience she had in the past, so she would see sex as not as important. (These are the girls that people commonly call sluts) A different girl might just block out that experience full stop, but not sleep with many guys. But she still wants to experience sex. So she's very careful as to who to sleep with. She could be quite shy talking about sex, have much less sexual partners in her life in comparison to the girl who sleeps around, and she will judge other women who sleep with many guys. But in the end women want to feel the pleasure of sex like guys, but there is pressure in society for women, as well as the negative experiences they could have experienced in the past with sex. So there is my mini essay lol, hope you see where I'm getting at :)

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