| What do you ladies do when you realize that you are just simply no longer a priority... do you find things to do outside the marriage? Wants, needs, desires, dreams, have all been communicated repeatedly and despite some effort on his part to simply appease and just me up... I have realized I am no longer his priority (don't even think I am in the top 3)... not quite sure he is even in love with me anymore, and thinking about it makes me sick to my stomach. There have been lies in the relationship on his behalf, I chose to take his side, even ended a very long friendship because I had no proof and didn't know who to believe or listen to. What he has said he wanted I have given my all at. I think he likes our lifestyle and stays and keeps me happy simply for the kids, the sake of being married, and other superficial reasons. The true genuine feeling of love is just not there anymore, and when I add it all up, if it weren't for my children, and that we are generally happy and get along well, I probably would seek a divorce, but it's very clear at this point after a year and half of trying... I am thinking I may need to do a 180 and prepare.... What is the female version of the 180? I think this process will benefit me in many ways but I need a female version. Thanks in advance for listening and for advice. I am not considering marriage counseling at this point because I think we will spend so much time hashing past hurts it will b e counterproductive. | |||
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