| My parents are getting divorced and it's really messy, I've had money issues all year due to lack of support from my dad and having to find work, and I've been bullied by the people I thought were my closest group of friends at Uni, whom I've known for a few years. My social life is a mess due to false rumours having been spread about me and being unable to spend much time with people due to having to do part-time work/lack of money to spend. I feel like I've had the hardest academic year of my life. I don't even want to think about what results I've gotten. I've spoken to a counsellor and my GP and tutor but they have been extremely unhelpful, advocating the softly softly approach to bullies or telling me I just need to "get on with it." Recently, I've felt like I wanted a boyfriend or at least someone to be there and support me, but obviously it's completely the wrong time for a relationship. I'm turning my life around slowly but it won't be "fixed" for ages; I can't even go back for the summer because we are no longer living in the family home. How do I stop feeling like I want someone else to take care of me? How do I become more independent? My dad won't speak to me any more and my mum is just lying to me continually about what's going on. I don't even have any close friends right now. | |||
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Been through the worst year of my life - how do I cope with it all?
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