introducing people into our 'bed'

Hi~ This is very odd for me to be considering.. I have a wonderful man in my life and our 'bed' time is always nothing short of fabulous. We are extremely sexual and spontaneous. The list of our never dos is very short. So all in all we keep each other very happy and worn out ~ haha. Well, this last year he has told me about his favorite porn- they are like homemade ones about a husband who shares his wife with another man, not in a gay way~ some times its soft play other times they share- anyway, he states all the time that he would like to do this. He wants to see me with another man? I'm thinking about it, but worry about taking it out of a fantasy and them having him think I truly am the '****' we act out~ So now with all the talk I cant help but think about being fair and doing either a couple thing, or M4WM or W4WM - We have been together for a little over 4 years and are engaged. And I'm okay with the 'idea' of it, but don't know how it effects couples. Or how to start something discreet like that- IF ITS EVEN LEGAL!! I have talked with him about it, and he seems to be taken by this and it could be fun. But I'm nervous where this will put 'US' as a couple. Will there be talk about things later like grudges? Can it be something that we share together and not travel to cheating on the side? Has anyone gone through this and has it been good? I have soo many questions~ and don't know who to ask really. I would do anything to keep my man happy, & he would for me as well I believe. I just don't know HOW serious he is & I don't want to cross lines I can't undo. Basically is it worth one night?

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