Wife tells me I put work first

So I get home at 6:30 pm which is about normal time for me. After dinner the wife tells me that I put work before the family because I never eat a sit down meal. This really pissed me off because it literally came out of no where. I don't drink, smoke, gamble, or do anything that would be considering a vice. I'm able to come home for breakfast and sometimes lunch. I visit my kids at school regularly. I'm in the military and live on base so the kid's school is very close and my commute is less than 4 miles. The issue is that I'm an Officer and my job does require long hours because of my position. I old her to pick a day during the week for a family dinner and she said every night is a family dinner. I told her that's not going to happen. So when she said this it not only pissed me off but it hurt emotionally as well. My family has nothing to want for. They are provided for above and beyond. Anyone else have this issue?

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