Update on R and Karma bus!

If you don't know my situation the short version is: Wife had a 40 day EA with sexting, pictures, and a statement from my WW that she didn't want me anymore because she had fallen for him. In addition there was a second guy she was stringing along, and a third guy she was talking all about her A to. After reading all I could of her emails, and texts I immediately sent her packing and made it clear I was not interested in her at all, due to her actions. After about a month of begging, and bending over backwards I agreed to attemp R. Everything is going very well on my R. My wife has become a model wife. If there is an issue it's her insecurity. She's consistantly worried I'll dump her any second if I'm the least bit unhappy. I believe this is a result of how quickly I sent her packing on Dday, and the huge amount of effort it took for her to get me to reconsider. On Dday she lost all access to her email, phone, etc. I retained the email accounts to see what other information came through. There was a trickle of emails at first, but with no replies they eventually stopped. About a month and a half ago OM attempted to contact my W again, but his emails were all being received by me. My W never saw them. I decided to try talking to him to out of a kind of morbid curiosity. I asked him questions posing as my W such as "Does it bother you that I'm married?" This triggered the hell out of me but helped me as well. Every bad thing I thought about OM proved to be true. It had a side effect I didn't expect. When OM attempted to start contact again he was very interested in getting my W to move to his state and live with him. I allowed him to believe she was considering it so I could continue the questions, but never agreed. Two days ago I hit him with the truth. He threw my W under the bus by basically saying he was trying to get her to R and only wanted to help her. What a dbag. Now he's begging for help on his facebook page. Turns out the state went after him for back child support and he's losing his appartment because he can't pay the rent. He was trying to get a roomate to help him pay the bills. He wasted so much time trying to get my W to move in he's basically cooked.

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