Marriage trouble because of work

When my husband and I started to work together in the same company the trouble started. Since then i have become nore depressed, angry and even doubting on my marriage to him. At work he tends to become very aggressive towards our coworkers. I sometimes try to understand because all he wants to do is make everything right but i feel like he wants to control everything and everybody. He talks and feels like he needs to say something in everything even if he's not asked. He gets mad and starts flipping and cussing if somebody didnt do their job or forgot to do something. Its good to correct other's mistakes but he makes mistakes too. Ive worked for my company for 6 years now and we hired him last year yet he thinks he knows everything about the business already. We do contstruction and we have foremans and they would tell me how most times they dont like how my husband talks to them. We are good friends of the owners. When its just me and him in the office i would try to talk to him about what i observe about his working ethics and then each time i talk, he would tell me that im blaming him again. I wasnt blaming him, i just wanted to let him know that he doesnt have to do everything and that he has to learn how to get along with others. It is very frustrating on my part being the head of the office because im always torn between my job snd being his wife. I am very level headed. I favor the right always and he knows that. If i know he is wrong, i tell him right away. The money is really good since we started working together but i think its making my relationship with him and our marriage suffer. I love my husband so much and i love the idea of us working together but i think this is too much now. Sometimes i dont even want to see or hear him talk. There were times when i wanted to text or call my boss about firing my husband but i dont want to be very harsh on him. I feel if i do that then im just being selfish. He loves working there and he is really a big help but its ruining our relationship. I dont know what to do. I have been really patient with him but it seems that whatever i say to him, goes from one ear to the other. I really need some advice. Thank you.

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