It's over after 20 years

5 days ago the man I have loved with all my heart for 20 years told me he does not love me and has decided he wants a divorce. He says he cares about my wellbeing but has no romantic or loving feelings towards me at all. We had some struggles a year and a half ago but went to counseling and we were on our way to recovery. At least I thought so. It turns out he never really dealt with the issues that came up before. And has been dealing with all these bad feelings and resentment towards me ever since. He has been faking his way through for months. He's tormented inside and just can't take it anymore. He refuses to go to counseling even on his own. He has taken off his wedding ring. I'm devastated. My Bday was less that two mo ago and he posted on my FB page "Happy Birthday to my loving wife. I love you more than you know. You are my soulmate". He has no explanation other than he's been miserable for months. My life as I know it has ended and I'm so distraught over this and don't know what to do.

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