| Okay, so if my best friend sees this then she will 100% know who I am, but I am pretty sure she doesn't use TSR, but just in case one of our mutual friends does, I am putting this as anon. Bit of background, my best friend is 19 (but literally just turned 19, it was her birthday last week). Her ex boyfriend is about 24/25. So, my best friend was with this guy (the 24/25 year old) for about 10 months in a very on off relationship; he kept screwing her around and being like "I don't know how strong my feelings are for you so I want to have a break" and then a week later he would text her like "I miss you, I do want to be with you." Around this time last year they broke up from their relationship properly and she said that she never wanted to get back with him and that that was it. Then about 2 months later her mum had to move away and she was going to move with her, but she obviously didn't want to move away from all of her friends etc. She got in touch with her ex (she said it was because he owed her money still so she wanted to sort it out, but honestly I think she just wanted to have an excuse to talk to him) and he suddenly told her that he LOVES her and doesn't want her to leave. So when her mum moved away (her mum moved about an hours drive away from where they did live), she moved in with her ex (now, boyfriend again as they got back together). They have been renting together for about 7/8 months now, maybe a little longer. About 10 days ago she found out that he has been "sexting" another girl, saying stuff to her like "Come over on Monday, my girlfriend is out..." etc, and implying that he wants to have sex with this other girl. This is why they broke up before, and my best friend told me that this is the 4th time he has been "sexting" other girls when they have been together. Within a few days she was already talking about forgiving him etc. Which I thought was ridiculous, because he is an idiot and he has done this 4 times now! Surely he would do it again? Now yesterday I met up with her and she told me she had BIG NEWS! Basically, she found out her boyfriend had actually cheated on her! Actually gone and had sex with another girl! Honestly, I wasn't ridiculously surprised purely cos I knew he was capable of being that much of a dick. She, in a way to try and get back at him, decided to go onto a chat room type thing (I dunno what it actually is) and started talking to a guy who lives a couple of hours drive away... This new guy, is 31, he has been married (now divorced), and also has 3 children! Part of me is a bit weirded out by the age gap purely cos she has only just turned 19, if she was 25 and he was 37, it wouldn't phase me at all! Here is my main problem... My best friend was going on about how well he treats her (she went to meet him the day after she spoke to him online, and they had spoken for 5 hours on the phone and felt like "they had known eachother forever"). She said he took her out to this really posh restaurant which was really expensive, and throughout the time she spent with him he spent over £400 on her! I like that she is happy, cos she deserves someone nice considering she was with such a dick for so long... But part of me thinks it is weird how much money he is spending on this girl he has only just met. She kinda sounds like she is a bit of a glamorised escort/prostitute... And yes, she has had sex with him already, they had a "4 hour sex session" I know some people are gunna completely disagree with me on here, I just wanna know what people think? Do you think it is a little weird too? PS. SO sorry how long this post is!! | |||
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