How do you put your feet down?

I am not the best at setting boundaries and don't have any idea of how to put my feet down. As I said on other of my threads, my husband won't talk if I need his input (or if I need to know what he thinks about something). And he won't hear me when I want to communicate something to him. I'm talking relationship related stuff. We have a (actions instead of words) kind of communication... -Last Saturday he came home at 2.30am, drunk and asked me to give him money to pay for the taxi because he didn't have anything on his wallet...:scratchhead:. I was not pleased obviously. I told him nothing, because I didn't want to get into a fight. What I did told him was that I didn't want him to do this on a regular basis... Was I wrong by not taking action on this behaviour of him? I think I can do better than that. Suggestions?

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