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drunk sex or romance?

Basically I like this guy at uni and we've been getting on pretty well for months now although not really in a flirty way, just as friends.
Not long ago we met at a party, both really drunk and ended up making out. Then ended up sleeping in the same bed but didn't have sex because he tried and I refused so we just cuddled and made out some more then we kissed goodbye in the morning.

It's not that I wouldn't sleep with him, just that I only generally have sex with someone if I like them and I know they like me... not just because were both really drunk. Also I have the suspicion that he probably sleeps with a lot of girls just because he's drunk and I don't want to be just another one on the list.

Since the party we have just pretended nothing happened and acted like normal.

To sum it up:
How do I find out if he genuinely likes me or just wants a quick shag? Also how to I let him know that me not sleeping with him doesn't mean that I don't like him?
I don't necessarily want a relationship, I just want to get to know him better (go for a drink etc) and see where it leads.




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