| Two of my best friends have been together for over 3 years, but broke up last weekend as they have been drifting apart... I find myself with two problems. 1) Both being very good friends, I'm finding it difficult to keep "neutral" and support them both through what it is a difficult time for them at the moment. I don't exactly want to go all, "Think about what this is doing to me!" on them, because this is about them after all, but has anyone been in a similar situation and succeeded in keeping them both above water and happy? I feel like the middle man and it's excruciating... And 2) Should I TRY and keep them both happy? On Saturday night, the guy hinted that he may have cheated on her in the past couple of weeks, (before they had the conversation that ended their relationship), and I'm really very torn over whether to tell her or not. I HATE keeping secrets from my friends, but I fear that if she finds out, it'll destroy her. And then if she finds out if I knew all along, that might be the end of our friendship. And I don't want that! So yeah... Any help right now would be great... Frankly, I don't know who to ask anyone in the rest of my friendship group because I don't know who knows what and I fear I might drop a bombshell... Which wouldn't be good! Thanks... | |||
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