argument about condoms

hello to all, I just want to ask for advice on my decision here. Recently me and my soon to be wife(currently fey once) had to decide on some sort of a birth control, as she does not feel ready for a baby in the next 3-4 years. I respect her decision and agree that we could wait for her to be over with university(I am in my final year). So we talked for a while and she decided that the most effective option is the pill. I had offered different methods, but she completely refused them, going as far as even throwing the condom off the list for its incomplete effectiveness. So I settled down with her decision, as I am not completely happy with her on the pill(due to side effects and possible risks mainly). It is now about 2 months later and she comes up to me saying that it is only fair for her to use the pill if I was to wear a condom and she's literally forcing me to be wearing it. We are not having sex currently, as we both want to wait after we get married in August. The problem is that I absolutely resent the idea of condoms in marriage. I do not believe that married people should be wearing condoms unless medical reasons make it a necessity. Her forcing me to wear a condom completely kills my entire desire for sex and I'm starting to look at it as an obstacle that we just have to go around, instead of something beautiful and pleasure-providing. I am now considering my final word on it. I wonder whether or not I should just tell her that I am not going to have sex with her at all if she's expecting me to have a condom, or to tell her that I am willing to be there for her when she wants it, but I will abstain from intercourse. One thing is for sure, I will not put that thing on me, the rest I am still not sure about. I'll be happy to hear what you think or how you'd go about a situation like that.

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