6 orgasms in over a year.. HELP!

I've been dating this guy for 14 months now. We get along great, talk openly. He was deprived of sex in his two previous marriages and so I make a point to be attentive. He talks about us being together for the long haul. But when we get to the bedroom, it has its problems... when we first met it was the usual 3-4 times per weekend thing. Now we're down to a couple times per weekend. We live apart during the week. I give great oral and he agrees.. and he gets it often. He has gone down on me twice.. once to orgasm (that was within the first 6 months of us being together). No orgasms from intercourse, I can't do that. But it is like he is afraid to touch me, to explore me, to enjoy me. All of my orgasms that I had with him in the first year were by masturbation, 1/2 the time with him. But now I am simply feeling offended. We've had this conversation, he would say he's afraid to be too rough. I've tried to show him and I've encouraged him, not critiqued him, but he just doesn't seem to "WANT" to pleasure me, even though he says he does. I'm ready to walk based on this point. I feel like "why buy the cow when you get the milk for free" is in play here. Any one got any suggestions? I feel that by the more I bring this up in conversation with him the more he will feel attacked. We've discussed this a half a dozen times in the past 3 months. Please help. I'm uncoupling.

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