| Sorry but this is a bit of a long one: 1. I am an 18 year old lad, I am starting Leeds Met in September but I am a virgin. Now to some of you this may be a problem or no big deal at all.....for me it's more of a matter of being scared in the Uni environment. From past experiences I found that not a lot of girls like virgin guys (it's more the other way round, guys like virgin girls). It's not as if I haven't had opportunities before: nearly lost it in Year 7 (she said she wasn't ready not long after penetration, say a few seconds), got asked to do it at a wake (turned down due to occasion) etc so turned down for good reasons. The other reason I am scared is that I am what you would call a nice-guy but I'm dirty minded, but the dirty mindedness is more of a bravado thing to cover up my insecurities at being a virgin (if that makes sense) I have recently been friend-zoned by 4 people, had my heart broken by 2 and I'm just worried that it will just repeat at Uni :/ 2. Second issue (well sort of), at an applicant day I got talking to a lovely young lady. Now I got her Facebook and Number but she lives far away (will be on campus for the year). Now she really is beautiful and I would love to try build something between us but I'm unsure of how to get across my intentions without scaring her or ruining this basic "friendship" thing :/ Any advice please? | |||
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