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My Girlfriend Acts like an Ass when she drinks

So its my first time going to one of these forum sites and to post my experiances with my gf who ive been dating for 2 and a half years.
I dont drink much but i do love that green stuff for higher learning purposes and my girl loves to drink.
Im a Gemini and shes a Scorpio. Im 23 and shes 25. so this is my problem my gf drinks she loves drinking ever since she was young like 13 thats when she told me she started smoking. so when she drinks she becomes a different person. she will start getting more obnoxious and hyper she wont be able to even look me in my eye when she talks. i hit that green so my perspective is greater i love analyzing situations and im a good listener but when someone pisses me off i get rowdy.
so 1 day we wake up and my buddy was like yo you gotta come with me to surry to see your cousin and since my buddy wanted to see my cousin for something i had to go so i told my gf and she was fine with it she was supppose to make butter chicken when i came back whhich was gonna be a couple hours. so everything was fine when i left we left on good terms and had dinner plans. she then told me she was gonna have a smoke with one of her cousins and i was all for it. so i left with my friend to surry. me and my buddy meet up with my cousin and i decide to call my gf she picks up and tells me her 2 guy cousins came over to her house and she chilling with them and her brother and i said ok ill just stay out a little bit longer. everything was fine. her plans changed thats fine cuz its her cousins. so then 2 hours later me and my buddy are going back to vancouver and i decide to call my gf again to tell her im coming. she doesnt pick up. i sometimes stay at my gfs place with her bro ther and parents. i couldnt go home for the past couple days because i had a fight with my parents. my parents dont like my gf even though they have never been properly introduced this is tha reason why...so i called my gf again and i went to leave a voicemail and something was different. her voice came on to leave a message and she sounded like she was crying beacause her voice was low and crackly and it sounded like tha most depressing voicemail ive ever heard. so i left her a voicemail saying call me im almost at your house. i called her 10 times after that and still no answer. then the next time i call her her phones off. so im thinking did she just turn her phone off or did it die? so i called her house at 1 in tha morning and her dad picked up and he said shes sleeping. im like ok and he said are you coming over and im like yes is that ok and he said yes. so i went to her house.
her dad opens the door and tells me they've been drinking and i expected the worst. not again! keeps playing in my head. i was furioius. so i went to her bedroom and guess what i see.
shes awake with a beer in her hand. beer cans all over the floor and the bed not even standing up on its side leaking the contents. an empty vodka bottle on the bed and plates. and im thinking in my head this is how you slept? like a dirty pig in mud? as soon as i stepped in her room my socks were soaked so im guessing someone spilled alot of booze on the ground. i was so disgusted. she looks at me with that glazed look in her eyes half drunk and half who knows what. shes been known for doing drugs like that white stuff so im thinking tha worst right now. she trys to sit up but fails and she tells me where ive been and im like ive been trying to call you and she tells me no i didnt i havent received any calls from you. she lied. tha room was a disaster. she then starts telling me that i took way too long like if i had come earlier i could have prevented all this. im thinking this girl is nuts. she then goes on to tell me shes sorry for bringing her cousins over like i was mad cuz of that? she basically starts changing the subject but shes drunk so she has an attitude. she never made butter chicken.
i hate taking care of her when shes messed up on liquor beacause it frustrates me and she acts all cocky and is a b*tch. other times when she hammered and theres other people there like my friends she acts like a slut. i stopeed talking to 3 of my close friends that i grew up with cuz of her. they somehow fell for her beauty and wanted to get with her thats what she told me. so i decided to man up and stop taking this kind of mental abuse. i cant concentrate on anything when im pissed at her like this. the love i thought we had tha moments we had mean nothing when she acts like this. so i decide to telll her to live in your mess and im gonna stay at a friends house. and she doesnt even aknowledge me. she thinks im joking. she starts being more aggresive blaming me like i made her drink so much. ive talked to her many times before that i have lost count and its tha same story she just apoligises and get back on tha same train like she forgot tha last time i broke up with her c uz of drinking and acting like an ass. so much that i dont even wanna be around her.
so i packed up my bags and told her clean up your room and grow up. i even told her if you cleaned up her act that i might end up staying. i waited. nothing no change nothing. so i left. started walking to my buddys house. she calls me and says im stunting her. im like wtf? she basically was blaming me for being late and for acting like an ass. and i hung up on her and told her dont call me again your psychotic.

I havent talked to her or picked up her calls or even aswered her txtxs for tha past 5 days. im dissapointed and choked that she could be like this. she keeps saying sorry but iu dont know if shes saying sorry for being a b*tch and f*cking with my head or for something else. like shes saying sorry that IM (me) an ass for walking out on her. when someone makes tha same mistake twice it becomes a habit right? i dont know what to do any advice?




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