| I've been with my other half for a year (next week!) and we're both very happy together except one thing, although I love him very much he say's he's still unsure how he feels and feels something strong but unsure it's love and is struggling to say it. Despite this, I'm being patient and realising it needs to be something he's sure, something thats not rushed and aslong as we're happy and he makes me feel loved as his partner, thats what matters. Start of this month we chatted and he asked me to start the process of moving in together, naturally this felt just the right thing to do, made sense as we spend most of our time together anyway and felt like the next natural thing to do in our relationship. However as the time has gone on i've been more unsure about taking this step with someone who just doesn't love me- although he say's he's not 100% sure what it is that he feels, he's yet to make that commitment- yet wants to make a long term commitment with me! Talk about mixed messages! We talked about this last night and he admitted he does feel the same, and occasionally feels anxious about moving in- but doesn't want to stop moving in and wants to move forward and keep going as he cares for me and i'm special too him to stop us progressing and stagnating- although we're not going to rush, keep communicating and wait till it both feels 'right' when we find a place. We've come back from a wonderful holiday and 90% of the time we're very happy together, have fun- I want to move in with him, but i'm feeling pathetic and sad that I'm doing this with a man that simply doesn't love me. Shouldn't I really wait? Are warning signs going off and I'm ignoring them as i'm too happy? | |||
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Moving in together- but he doesn't love me
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