Are clubbing holidays normal in a relationship?

My boyfriend of a year is 24 and is going to ibiza and magaluf in summer. I know i shouldnt care but I do im not fussed about him going on holiday at all but more about the locations. I declined going to magaluf this summer as I have a boyfriend and lets be honest the point of those holidrays in to have sex and drink and im not interested in that. My boyfriend said to me I clearly dont trust him and got pretty offended which i understand as I do trust him but I do not know what he is like when hes been drinking solidly and there are women offering it on a plate. Also his friends are 'lads' and they just go on the hunt for women so even if my boyfriend didnt intentionally go looking for a girl hes going to end up with groups of them. I know that the bars in magaluf encourage you to have sex, i.e doing body shots of taking of your clothes in a bar and i know my boyfriend would do this. The cruise boozes get women to take their tops of my friend went on one when they told the girls to give the guy head and she said a majoirity did. I knoow i should trust him but I know what the girls there are like they go after the guys and I have no idea how he will react with all the alchool and sex on a plate, he is a totally different man when he is with his friends ive seen him drunk once and i really didnt like what i saw he becomes sex obsessed, crude and overly flirty (this was at a tame work party) Part of me also questions why if your in a happy relationship do you want to go on a holiday that is based and enocourges sex ?

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